People from different countries have different habits and culture. An American living in St. Petersburg shares his observations.
“If you ever are at a Russian gathering and someone gives a toast, it is important, and good manners, to cheer everyone at the table. In America, you can get away with (можно ограничиться) eye contact and a tip from across the table, but that won’t do in Russian company. Toasting culture is a big part of birthdays, company events, holiday parties, so be prepared to reach across the table a few times.
When you visit places outside of Russia, this can get a bit awkward (неловко). In some weird (странный, чудной) turn of events, it’ll look like you’re over-eager, one-upping (слишком стараетесь угодить) everyone, or desperately trying to sleep with the person you’re reaching across the table to cheers.” So, don’t be shy, but, as the proverb says, “When in Rome do as Romans do.”
