How To Initiate A Conversation With Strangers
The tricky part of kicking off (начать) a conversation with someone you know (but not all that well) is that it’s often difficult to keep the details straight or you’re unaware of what’s changed since you’ve seen them last. The key here is to frame your questions carefully and stay neutral in order to keep your foot out of your mouth (не сказать что-л. обидное, не смутить собеседника).
Instead of: The last time I saw you, you were looking for a new job. (He could still be unemployed or stuck (остается, застрял) in a job he hates.)
Try: What’s the latest on the job search?
Instead of: How long have two been together? (Perhaps they haven’t defined their relationship yet.)
Try: So, how did you two meet?
Instead of: Have any kids yet? (They could not want kids or have trouble conceiving (зачать).
Try: Bring me up to date … what’s happening with you?
